Did I miss the signals? Were there signals?
Oblivious Girl Asks:
I recently met a Pisces boy a few days ago through a friend. We went to the movies with a group of 7, and during the credits Pisces boy made the initiative to give a friendly wave to me. Got me thinking, “what a nice guy.” After the movie, I was introduced to everyone and we all headed to a cafe. I awkwardly sat between Pisces boy and his other friend. He made the initiative to ask me questions, like where I went to school, and what I plan to major, and if I lived in a certain area. After I said I was 19, he added that he was going to turn 19 in a month.
I felt very comforted by his questions because it would’ve been awkward silence since I’m still new to the group. He also introduced me to his sister who was in the group. I forgot most of the conversation but one question stuck out. He asked if I had a boyfriend. I had a very small moment of being taken aback, I was never asked this in person before. I answered “no” and he proceeded to say that he was hoping to look at picture of my bf to see if the guy was hot or not. A gal pal sitting beside him told me he was also bi, I believe she mentioned that to lessen the awkwardness. It was true though, he is bi. When I took out my phone to check messages, he said “you should add me on Facebook” and I mentioned that I didn’t have the app so I couldn’t add him immediately, but then a guy friend intervened and joked saying not to add Pisces boy because he’s weird. Pisces boy had asked what I ordered to drink, he then asked if he could take a sip, in which I didn’t mind. I’m not sure if it’s normal for strangers to share drinks that quickly.
When the group started walking to the parking lot to leave, I noticed Pisces boy walked behind me rather than catching up with the majority of the group in front. I’m not sure if I’m just being too technical here, my attention was drawn to him ever since the questioning, so I notice where he places himself.
To conclude, I just kept thinking about him being bi yet asking me if I have a bf. And we just met too. Not sure if he’s interested in me or just very friendly in talking. I realized I should’ve just added him immediately on Facebook when he mentioned it. That would’ve been a better conversation. But I managed to add him a few days after the meet.
I’m not sure if I’m mistaking his kindness as a sign of liking someone.
I appreciate any input on this. Thanks for your time!
Based on what you wrote it sounds like he was “flirting” with you. In many ways, it’s like he was throwing himself in front of you constantly where he was looking for that mutual agreement of taking things further. Hence, asking to share the drink or to add him on Facebook.
I am also inclined to say he sounds kind of insecure with himself due the how strong he is coming across to you. So it sounds like he “likes you” based on what you wrote. How serious this is or if it say a simple “infatuation” is another story as you kind of need to spend more time with him to find out.